Is it real?
Yes. Never revoked by the IRS. Latest filing on record: FY2025. IRS ruling in Nov 2008.
IRS Pub. 78 · IRS Auto-Revocation List · IRS Business Master File
Where the money goes
75 cents of each dollar spent went to programs.
Form 990 Part IX, line 25, columns B–D. Every line is in By the numbers.
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Who runs it and what they're paid
6 people listed on the 990; $140K paid to officers and key staff.
Matthew Loehr’s $86K as President is at the 77th percentile of top reported officer pay among 2168 $100K–1M human services nonprofits. Peer set: organizations in the same NTEE major field of work and revenue-size band, compared on each org’s own highest-paid officer/key-employee, from Form 990 Part VII / 990-PF Part VIII. Descriptive placement, not a verdict on whether the pay is appropriate.
Compensation history total reportable pay by year · 5 named individuals · Part VII
| Name | FY2022 | FY2021 | FY2020 |
|---|---|---|---|
| Matthew Loehr | $86,400 | — | — |
| Matthew | — | $81,500 | — |
| Matt Loehr | — | — | $74,000 |
| Pam Loehr | $62,000 | — | $53,000 |
| Pam | — | $58,500 | — |
Total reportable compensation (Form 990 Part VII column D / Schedule J column E) by filing year, matched by name within this organization. The Schedule J base / bonus / deferred breakdown is not parsed into this dataset.
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Questions the 990 asks
The form asks each of these directly. These are the filed answers.
- Family or business ties among officersPt VI · Ln 2No
- Top official's pay set by an independent reviewPt VI · Ln 15aNo
Programs and updates
Trains and equips mentors to save and strengthen marriages nationwide.
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Educational Events
The organization conducts seminars to promote and strengthen marriages and train others to be marriage mentors.
Funders
Who pays for it.
From grant filings on record. Receipts are incomplete: individual donors are never listed.
Grants
By the numbers
The FY2021 990, line by line.
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| Line | Start FY21 | End FY21 |
|---|---|---|
| Cash and savingsLn 1–2 | $380K | $376K |
| Total assetsLn 16 | $384K | $379K |
| LiabilitiesLn 26 | $7K | $6K |
| Net assetsLn 32 | $377K | $373K |
| Line | Total | Programs | Management | Fundraising |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Other salaries and wagesLn 7 | $140K | $111K | $29K | |
| Pension plan contributionsLn 8 | $19K | $19K | ||
| Other employee benefitsLn 9 | $8K | $4K | $4K | |
| Payroll taxesLn 10 | $4K | $4K | ||
| Accounting feesLn 11c | $420 | $378 | $42 | |
| Other fees for servicesLn 11g | $2K | $2K | ||
| Advertising and promotionLn 12 | $10K | $9K | $1K | |
| Office expensesLn 13 | $6K | $5K | $559 | |
| OccupancyLn 16 | $18K | $16K | $2K | |
| TravelLn 17 | $3K | $3K | ||
| Conferences, conventions and meetingsLn 19 | $5K | $5K | ||
| InsuranceLn 23 | $450 | $405 | $45 | |
| Other expenses (24a–d)Ln 24 | $27K | $25K | $2K | |
| All other expensesLn 24e | $8K | $6K | $2K | |
| Total functional expensesLn 25 | $250K | $187K | $64K | $0 |
Filing history
| Year | Money in | Money out | In minus out | Net assets | Download |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| FY2025 Latest | $267K | $333K | −$67K | $221K | 990 PDF |
| FY2024 | $329K | $314K | $15K | $288K | 990 PDF |
| FY2023 | $260K | $312K | −$52K | $272K | 990 PDF |
| FY2022 | $242K | $291K | −$49K | $324K | 990 PDF |
| FY2021 Viewing | $246K | $250K | −$4K | $373K | 990 PDF |
| FY2020 | $332K | $270K | $62K | $377K | 990 PDF |
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Schedules filed Part IV
See the full FY2021 990 (6 parts)
Part I · Summary $246,500 revenue, 12 lines filed
Part VI · Governance 0 of 6 board members independent, 4 to look at
Part VIII · Statement of revenue $246,500 across 8 lines filed
Part IX · Statement of functional expenses $250,239 across 14 lines filed
Part X · Balance sheet $379,261 assets, 9 lines filed
Part XI · Reconciliation of net assets $373,101 net assets at year end
Form 990 e-file (XML) FY2021 from the IRS · Classification, formation year and address from the IRS Business Master File
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